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horselady
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 Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 11:25 am Post subject: How to avoid disappointment? |
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| I don't want to set myself up for more disappointment here. I stopped taking the pill and have just started my second cycle today since I stopped. I read somewhere that of course you can become pregnant as soon as you stop taking the pill, but on average you have to wait at least 3 months or more. I dont want to wait any longer. I wish I could become pregnant asap.... I am 29 and trying to conceive for the first time. Somehow I am worried that my fertility has decreased a bit already, which they say it can. How can I not worry so much about stuff and to avoid disappointment? Each time between my cycles I was really gearing my thoughts toward being pregnant, only to end in disappointment when that first day of my period arrives. Yesterday I was already starting to feel confident that I might be pregnant, because the previous period started on a Thursday, and while on the pill I was always so dead on regular. Of course I guess I am not any more. |
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KMS
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 11:30 am Post subject: |
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| You need to stop stressing over whether or not you are pregnant. The stress will NOT help you reach your goal, instead it will make it MORE difficult to become pregnant. Try using the mindframe that you will get pregnant when it is meant to be. I know it is easier said than done, but you are only given what you can handle. |
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shell_mlh
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 11:31 am Post subject: |
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| just make love and don't think about wanting to be pregnat just let it happen and soon it will.....but the more you think about it the less you will become pregnat,, if you are meant to have a child you will ... dont get disappointed in your self... |
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CiCi
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 11:31 am Post subject: |
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| The funny thing about worrying is that it can keep you from getting pregnant. Many women conceive when they just give up and forget about it. The best thing you can do is to keep track of your fertile days but try not to obsess about it. This can be hard but it's the best way to assure getting pregnant. |
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CJ's mamma
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 11:32 am Post subject: |
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| I know how you feel. It can be disappointing when af arrives. But your day will definetely come. Just have lots of sex on the weeks of ov. And one day you will have the shock of your life. Good luck to you!! |
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daisy
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 11:33 am Post subject: |
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there is an herb called vitex. it is wonderful. it actually helps restore the hormonal balances lost by taking birth control. it is relatively cheap and doesn't really have any side effects. i am so sensitive to hormones....they affect my emotions....and i had no problems with the vitex. it helps you ovulate again...which is what may be missing after stoping birth control. some people say that they have some light spotting after starting it but it quickly goes away. as you research herbals looking up vitex...i would advise against evening prime rose oil. it can cause uterine contractions, miscarriages and breakthrough bleeding...good luck!!  |
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~ Bubz ~
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 11:36 am Post subject: |
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| I copied and pasted this from another question and answer and I thought it would be helpful. Don't stress out because it will just be harder to conceive, some healthy couples take up to 12 months to conceive for the first time. Stay positive and stress less...Looking to add an infant to your family? Here are some great conception tips for having a healthy, successful pregnancy.Make Love in the MorningResearch shows that a man's sperm count is higher in the morning, and most women notice that men are naturally 'in the mood' at this time anyway.Take advantage of it!More about this Conception TipKeep it CoolMen have a higher sperm count when their genitals are kept at a cooler temperature.So have him stay away from hot tubs and hot showers, and reap the befitsUse Caffeine in ModerationCaffeine has shown to help with conception more than hurt it. Used in moderation can help in both male and female reproduction.More about this Conception TipGo For a WalkWomen who exercise regularly are almost 40% more likely to carry a healthy child to term.Their toned bodies are up to the challenge of pregnancy!Snuff the CigaretteYou probably know by now just how much damage smoking causes to developing fetusses and to young infants.Smoking can be just as bad for the chances of a couple to conceive a child in the first place.Call In the LadybugsPesticides can seriously damage a woman's chance of getting pregnant and of maintaining that pregnancy.Switch to organic means of farming, and avoid locations where pesticides are in use.Know your CycleSimply put, there are times that your egg is in the right spot, and there are times that it isn't.Figure out your own, personal cycle and know when the best chance of getting pregnant is.More about this Conception TipDrink Like a FishWater, that is. An adult should drink 8-10 glasses of water a day as part of normal health.It's even more important for a woman who wants to get pregnant to maintain this healthy habit.Have some WineWhile abusing alcohol can be a serious problem for a growing fetus, research has shown that drinking a glass of wine each night can actually help you get pregnant.Hope this helps. as I said its actually someone else's answer, I'm not looking for credit just wanted to help. |
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Pink
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 1:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Don't set any expectations, then you won't be let down. If you expect it and not get it, that's why you get disappointed. If you don't expect anything and if it happens, then you'll be pleasantly surprised. |
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