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itTakesAStrongWomanTo ♥
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Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:19 pm Post subject: Please tell me how can I be happy?

Today is my 20th birthday but only few people greeted me. Okay my two best college buddies only and the rest of my friends were like saying "hi girl" and oh most of my friends went home this weekend so we're only few in my dorm but no one seems to remember this day. My hubby was sent for a military exercise. No care package, no phone call, no IM, no letter or whatever..its crazy! Hey if i wasnt born this date, you will never meet me!*My family who lives 500 miles from me did not even call me or greet me. Damn I feel forgotten. :[Oh i already went to church today, treat myself with a sumptuous meal alone and now i dunno what else to do! Why do i feel this..i feel meaningless! I wanna break down and cry...

:) Bee
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:23 pm Post subject:

..did you remind them?

mclovin35@ymail.com
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:23 pm Post subject:

Email Me. I'll make you happy

Me Bug You Long Time
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:23 pm Post subject:

Yeah this year when I celebrated my 19th it was the worst. No one did ANYTHING for me and all my friends were away at college...:(Next year is gonna be different though! I'm gonna have the best birthday!!!! (I'll make sure of it!)

fe5crimson
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:23 pm Post subject:

Treat yourself to a bottle of vodka

Lulu V
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:23 pm Post subject:

please dont feel bad i am sure they just fogot not cuz they mean to but because of all the thing going on in their lives thats for your friends but for you family you need to let them know what thay did was wrong

tuff311
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:23 pm Post subject:

The older you get the less people who care.

Baz F
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:24 pm Post subject:

go get drunk

lovergirl2008
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:24 pm Post subject:

After a certain age, birthdays don't seem to matter to most people any more. But, I know what you mean. I just turned 21 and no one seemed to care but me...

david s
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:24 pm Post subject:

you can be happy if you drink and do lots of drugs... thats how i stay happy

Press288
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:24 pm Post subject:

People tend to forget after a while. I suggest you get a Facebook. That way, all your friends/family will recieve a notification that it's your birthday! It was my friends birthday today too. Kinda awkward in class when not many people said happy birthday, but I did. So I guess she felt the same way a little? Anyway, don't think too much about it. I'm sure there's a reason. Sometimes it just takes a little "hey, its my birthday!" reminder, or a birthday balloon to spark people's memories.This might not count for much but, Happy Birthday!

Jesus Freak
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:24 pm Post subject:

just enjoy that you have life. i hardly have friends, but that doesn't stop me from enjoying life. i have a sufficient amount of friends, but its not like i want them to know everything. we are human, we tend to forget. stay with a positive mind, and you will be a positive person. believe in yourself that you can accomplish your goals. there are people that care, it is just your job to find them. to conclude, Happy Birthday.

ShaH
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:25 pm Post subject:

Hey, don't worry I'm pretty sure there's a good reason for not being able to wish...HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

beky1580
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:25 pm Post subject:

that is a little messed up.I'm sorry. give your 2 college buddies a call and hang out and don't think of anything else today.try to make the best of it.

special-chemical-x
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:25 pm Post subject:

I've been there. Going to a college far from home and everyone forgets you.Happiness can be made by getting rid of your sadness.Sadness is created by our expectations which aren't met.Our expectations aren't met because we aren't living in the "now"You live instead in what "could be" or what "might have been"You need to leave both of those places and look around you. Are there games you would like to play? Is there a movie you might like to see. Do those things and be happy. It's always a happy day when you are alive and healthy, right?Have faith your friends and family will be around and you will see them. You can party with them later. It is only a numerical date. A party can happen soon with a little prodding. But maybe not today.Enjoy your today and your Now!

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