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Maci
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 Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 1:38 am Post subject: Weight loss and attractiveness? |
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| If you've ever lost a large amount of weight: how did you handle the people who had known you before the weight loss and found you unattractive when heavy, and then attractive after losing weight? Did the change of attitude bother you or were you okay with it? |
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crackolette1
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| Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 1:47 am Post subject: |
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| i didn't lose weight but i got buff and sexy :Dit boosted my self esteem to the point where i was arrogant but then i calmed down and enjoyed being sexy and embraced the attention i received. it's a good thing to feel sexy |
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| Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 1:51 am Post subject: |
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| I dont know, I was really fit when I met my bf, after three years, I gained 50 pounds and he was the one bringing me the food, even when I gotten fat, he still liked to bring me out for ice cream, Those are the ppl you want to know in your life, I know a lot of ppl will just say he didnt care about my healthy blah blah blah, I am the one who ate it. but some ppl on the other hand acted like I had been a fat whale all my life or something and did get some pretty bad treatment from ppl. I was called a fat blob, a fat whale, I was seen as the fat girl, thin girls thought I was jealous of them, flirted with my bf thinking they were all that and something else. After I seen it as a problem, I lost the weight pretty quick, now, most girls with bfs dont want me anywhere near their bf, ppl tell me how much weight I have lost, Like I dont know already and as if I had been fat the entire time. when I was fat, ppl treated me a lot different, like I was gross and lazy meanwhile I was working 12 hour hard labour, I just ate way too much. and my mom, she likes to buy me clothes when i am only thin, maybe its only because she thinks it is pretty and knows I will fit it. |
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Black lashes
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| Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:02 am Post subject: |
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| well it was really hard cause i knew i looked good, but i didn'tt want to seem consited, so ididn'tt really know how to take compliments. it did bother me that peopledidn'tt accept me when i was overweight even my friends wanted to hang out more with me when i lost the weight (not just guys), but i guess i just said thank you when i got a compliment and i would just compliment my self in private or in a very humble way, "cause lets face it no one likes anarrogantt person" |
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Michelle G
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| Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:04 am Post subject: |
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| I suppose you should look at it this way. People are naturally attracted to a certain type of person, whether it's their weight, their hair colour, or even their skin colour.If you were overweight once, then those who aren't attracted to people who are overweight would have found you unattractive. That's just logical.If you were to lose weight then those same people would very likely find you attractive.I wouldn't let it bother me at all because it's natural that people are attracted to different types of people.If they're mean about it though, then that's another story! |
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Scarlett M
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| Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:09 am Post subject: |
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| Yes, before loosing weight I was been neglected as if something was wrong in me. The reason was I never used to look attractive, no matter people say that looks don't count but still they go on looks. Thanks to yoga, after starting with different yoga postures it not only reduced my weight but I started looking attractive as yoga not only helps in weight reduction it also nourishes your mind, body and soul. |
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Sherilyn T
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| Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:51 am Post subject: |
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| I saw this product called Acai Berry on Oprah the other week.. Looked like all the other diet scams, but I went for it and ordered a 14-day free trial from this site.. And guess what, it really works!! I'm so happy I've already lost weight, gotten more energy and my stomach is flatter than ever! |
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