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rhianw80
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 Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 2:32 pm Post subject: I cant get over being a victim of voyeurism? |
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| when my ex boyf who i trusted was on an army training exercise, he encouraged me to send him explicit pics and vids, assuring me that he would delete them and make sure no one saw them. i discovered that his army mates were huddled against his phone watching me as i was sending them through! I also discovere that he was cheating on me with this girl from the army that was also aware of the tape and that he had his mates watching it.I cannot get over the HUGE breach of trust. This guy was a 28 year old doctor, not some high school boy.and must of all the humilation of being tricked into being a " porn star" for his mates amuzement!to rub salt into the wounds, he started dating the girl that he was cheating on me with, and said that i was just his f'uck buddy and nothing more and that he never wanted to see me again. I had known him for 9 months, and I cant believe how cruel and sadistic he turned. I feel sick and humilated when thinking about it and i cant study!helpsophia grace, the question is, how can i best get over this? and your response please? |
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sophia Grace
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| Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 2:43 pm Post subject: |
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ok. I think you can only get over this with time. Oh and dont ever talk to him again. he doesnt deserve to even be acknowledged by you. Make sure everyone knows your side of the argument so they dont think youre immoral or something. Unfortunately I dont think what he did was illegal, otherwize i'd say call the cops on him.  ...maybe you need to talk to someone about this or get counseling to work through this. |
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Wen
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| Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 3:07 pm Post subject: |
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| 1) People are people. Some (sadly) are idiots. Your ex was one of these.2) You can't undo the past. Forgive yourself. That is going to be the key. You could not have known what would happen. You feel stupid and you feel like you let yourself down. The fact is that we all do things that we later regret. When you can accept that you are only human and you can forgive yourself, then you will be able to move forward.3) Not everyone is like your ex. You can return to a normal and healthy relationship - a bit wiser for the experience.Good luck! |
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Dreamlite
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| Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 3:18 pm Post subject: |
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| Wow the a-hole. you should have someone to talk to about this , do u have a friend who can carry you thru this breakup? Do you trust anyone who's willing to be a good listener for you? Because I think that's what you need, a good person to talk to..if you can you can see a consular for a short while especially if it's affecting ur studying. Also just think of it as a lesson learned ( I hope u aren't underage) |
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